We have all been criticising about what is not being done by the government. However, we rarely give our own solutions to any problem that we see. May be the suggestion is ridiculous - but still if we look things in a positive way may be we can suggest solutions which some one can like and decide to implement. I know this is very wishful thinking but this is surely better than just criticising.

Tuesday, August 22, 2023

Voluntary efforts can help address suicides of youngsters in Kota

Kota, the coaching capital of Bharat, is becoming infamous now a days with news of suicides of the aspirants of competitive examinations, not being able to cope with the stress associated with their preparations.

As per figures provided by the district administration, in the recent past the suicide rate was
In 2016    17
2017        7
2018        20
2019        18
2022        15 
2023        22 as of now.
In 2020 and 2021 students had left Kota because of Covid.

This issue must be looked at on a macro level. 

Why we are in the mindset that cracking the entrance examinations for Engineering and Medical are the only options for prosperity. Or even if this is a must, are the ways of teaching, the ways of conducting the entrance exams also not responsible for such a tragic scenario, year after year.

One must also look into the living conditions - stay and food availability, in Kota,  the timings of coaching classes, is language barrier also affecting etc.

Besides government taking steps through the education ministry we should also look at the role of voluntary organisations stepping in. We have numerous voluntary organisations giving lessons on de-stressing, on life skills development, on personality development; then why not an exclusive organisation to de-stress the aspirants in Kota.

Such exclusive voluntary organisations can offer free services with live sessions and even online sessions for the youngsters. The speakers will have to be selected in such a way that they are young, they will talk in the language that these youngsters will accept, they will talk of real life instances etc. Like we have sessions for the kids on how to increase their memory power, these youngsters can be offered expert advice to achieve what they are looking for, but without stress.

Young engineers, entrepreneurs, doctors, who are good communicators can very effectively take up this responsibility and join hands with some voluntary organisations.

Retired seniors can play a very active role here. Knowledge and experience of these seniors can be made good use of. This would give these seniors a purpose in life and the satisfaction they will get will help them maintain better physical and mental health.

11 comments:

Anonymous said...

Good thought...but the fault lies with the coaching pattern...change that too..

Anonymous said...

Good suggestions

Anonymous said...

Would like to help

Anonymous said...

But anonymously

Anonymous said...

Very informative eye-opener about the sad fact of youth committing suicide unable to face the stress of failure in competitive exams. It is a shame that these young people and perhaps their parents and familihave not received counseling that besides what they consider the goal of their hard work there are several other possibilities for them to apply their knowledge and talents. We all should contribute our efforts to counsel the youth to handle such disappointment.

Anonymous said...

Arun Nathan

Anonymous said...

Very good Thought.

Anonymous said...

Parents are not aware of the child how he or she gets into stress then depression and finally suiside. It's the responsibility of all the stake holders including Coaching centre, hostels, Parents and related NGO to come together and provide some practical solution.

Anonymous said...

An excellent article with practical suggestions. Very well worded. In science and technology driven world, competitive environment and the fear of ‘being left behind’ have all contributed to suicidal tendencies especially among our youths. Dr Vijay Maroo should be congratulated for expressing his views on this vitally important topic - Prakash W.

Ajay Kumar Jain said...

Not only Kota, but the coaching institutions across India need to be curbed. They push students to such a tipping point that they can't think about anything else.

Arpan Dixit said...

There are plenty of motivation speeches by famous personalities including Mr Mahindra. The issue is not this simple to resolve.
It requires scientific evaluations, pin pointed issues,individual,class & institutional signature outcome handling.
We do these but problem is red tape of the bureaucracy & institutions themselves.
We conducted the Govt of India's Mental Health study of Students, parents and teachers & the ministry published 6 books of our team.
When we reach out to institutions and IAS officers via official and non official channels, they come across as unconcerned & unwilling to use methods available.
At CatFit we designed a Mental Toughness course which includes evaluations, counselling, motivation and mental exercises so that students dont fall back into psychological issues. Question is, who is listening or bothered.